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From birth · 3

Tummy time on your chest
  1. Lie back on a sofa or bed, propped at roughly forty-five degrees.
  2. Lay the baby tummy-down on your chest, face turned toward yours.
  3. Talk and let the baby lift their head to find your face.

Why it helps

The easiest possible tummy time. Your chest is warm and it slopes, so the baby works against much less gravity than the floor asks for — and the reward for lifting their head is your face.

Watch for

Stay awake and keep your hand on the baby the whole time. If you feel yourself getting drowsy, stop and put the baby on their back in the crib — tummy time is only ever for an awake, watched baby.

First tummy time on the floor
  1. Spread a firm blanket on the floor, away from soft bedding and pillows.
  2. Put the baby tummy-down and lie on the floor facing them.
  3. Aim for three to five minutes, two or three times a day, and build up from there.

Why it helps

Flat ground is harder than your chest, and that difficulty is the point: pushing up on the forearms is what builds the neck, shoulder, and back strength that rolling, sitting, and crawling are all made of.

Watch for

Awake and watched, every time, with you on the floor beside them — and back in the crib on their back for any sleep. Fussing after a minute is normal at this age and is not a reason to push on: pick the baby up, try again later, and count the short attempts, because they add up.

Bicycle legs
  1. Lay the baby on their back and hold both shins gently.
  2. Cycle the legs slowly, one bend as the other straightens.
  3. Stop as soon as you feel the legs pushing back against you.

Why it helps

Slow hip and knee movement after a feed is comfortable, and it gives you a clear read on how the legs move — a baby who pushes back is telling you the hips are working well.

Watch for

Follow the baby's own range and never push a joint past where it stops easily. Resistance means stop, not press harder.

From 3 months · 2

Push up on the forearms
  1. With the baby on their tummy, slide a rolled towel under the chest, armpit to armpit.
  2. Bring both forearms forward so the elbows sit under the shoulders.
  3. Put something worth looking at just above eye level.

Why it helps

The towel lends the baby a few centimeters of height so the chest clears the floor, and from there the head comes up and the world opens out. This is the position crawling grows out of.

Watch for

Use a firm towel roll, never a pillow or a cushion, and take it away the moment you leave the mat. Soft props and an unwatched baby are the combination to avoid.

Roll with a little help
  1. Lay the baby on their back and bring one knee up and across the body.
  2. Pause there and wait — most of the turn comes from the baby once the hips lead.
  3. Help the trailing arm out from underneath as they land on their tummy.

Why it helps

Rolling starts at the hips, not the shoulders. Starting the turn with a knee shows the baby the shape of the movement and leaves the effort to them.

Watch for

Guide, never twist, and stop if the arm gets trapped or the baby protests. Once rolling happens on its own, the changing table and the bed both stop being safe places to turn away from.

From 4 months · 4

Find your own feet
  1. Lay the baby on their back and bring one foot up toward their hands.
  2. Let go once the hands take hold, and let them hang on by themselves.
  3. Put a bright sock on one foot if the feet have not been noticed yet.

Why it helps

Holding both feet curls the whole body into a ball, which is real work for the stomach muscles that later sit a baby up. The discovery matters as much as the exercise: these feet turn out to be attached to me.

Watch for

Let the baby set how far the legs come up and stop if the hips resist at all. A loose sock comes off and goes in the mouth, so stay with them and take it away at the end.

Sit inside your lap
  1. Sit on the floor with your legs in a V and the baby between them, facing out.
  2. Support low, at the hips rather than the chest, and let the back do its own work.
  3. Put a toy on the floor in front so the baby leans forward to get it.

Why it helps

Holding a baby at the chest does the work for them. Holding at the hips leaves the trunk something to do, and the small wobbles they correct are the muscles learning to sit alone.

Watch for

Your legs are the sides, so a tip-over lands on you. Skip the propped seats and cushions that hold a baby upright before they can get there alone.

Kick at a target
  1. Lay the baby on their back on a firm mat.
  2. Hold a soft, crinkly toy or your flat palm at their feet, close enough to reach with a kick.
  3. Each time a foot lands, let the toy crinkle, then wait for the next kick.
  4. Move the target over to the other foot, so both legs get turns.

Why it helps

A kick at something is a kick with a purpose. Lifting and aiming a leg works the stomach and hip muscles that rolling also uses, and the crinkle tells the baby that their own foot made the sound.

Watch for

Keep the target in your hand, never tied or hung up, and stop when the baby turns away. Take down crib mobiles and anything strung across a crib or play gym by five months, or as soon as the baby pushes up on hands and knees if that comes first — a baby who can reach a hanging toy can get tangled in it.

Stand and bounce on your lap
  1. Sit down and hold the baby upright facing you, your hands around the chest under the arms.
  2. Lower them until both feet rest flat on your thighs.
  3. Let them push down and bounce at their own pace.
  4. Sit them on your lap as soon as the knees fold.

Why it helps

Many babies this age push down hard through their feet when held standing, and bouncing turns that push into a game. The hips, knees, and ankles all work together, while you carry most of the weight.

Watch for

Start only once the head is steady when held upright. Hold the trunk, never the hands or wrists — a sudden pull on a baby's arm can slip the elbow out of place, which is called nursemaid's elbow. Keep each round short, let the baby set the bounce, and sit them down when the legs fold.

From 5 months · 2

Rock on a big ball
  1. Lay the baby tummy-down on a fully inflated exercise ball.
  2. Hold the hips or the trunk with both hands.
  3. Roll the ball slowly forward a little, so the baby props up on their arms.
  4. Roll it slowly back again, and keep every rock small.

Why it helps

As the ball moves, the baby keeps adjusting to stay up: the head lifts, the arms push, and the back works. That steady, small correcting is balance practice that a flat floor cannot give.

Watch for

Keep both hands on the baby the whole time, and roll slowly. Never tip the ball so far that the head points down toward the floor. Stop if the baby cries or the body goes floppy, and keep the ball on a clear floor with nothing hard around it.

Turn in a circle on the tummy
  1. Put the baby on their tummy on a firm mat on the floor.
  2. Show them a toy in front, then move it slowly to one side, just out of reach.
  3. Wait while they push with the arms and legs to turn their body after it.
  4. Keep the toy moving around in a slow arc, then go back the other way.

Why it helps

Turning on the belly means shifting weight onto one arm and reaching with the other. It is often the first way a baby gets to something by themselves, and it builds the shoulder and trunk control that crawling needs.

Watch for

Tummy time is only for an awake, watched baby, so stay on the floor beside them. Stop when they put their face down or start to fuss, and put them on their back in the crib for any sleep.

From 6 months · 3

Reach across while sitting
  1. Sit the baby on the floor with a toy just out of reach on one side.
  2. Wait while they turn, lean, and plant a hand to stay up.
  3. Move the toy to the other side and do it again.

Why it helps

Sitting still is only half of sitting. Leaning out past your own base and catching yourself with a hand is the reflex that decides whether a wobble becomes a bump on the head.

Watch for

Clear the floor around the baby of hard edges first, and stay close enough to catch a fall backwards, which is the one they cannot yet stop.

Rock on hands and knees
  1. On a firm floor, lay the baby tummy-down over a rolled towel or across your leg.
  2. Bring the knees up under the hips and the hands under the shoulders.
  3. Let them rock forward and back on their own.
  4. As they get steadier, take the towel away and keep a hand ready under the tummy.

Why it helps

Many babies rock on hands and knees for a while just before they crawl. It puts weight through the shoulders, wrists, and hips, and lets the baby feel how far forward they can lean before a hand has to move.

Watch for

Keep a hand ready under the tummy, and stop when the arms buckle or the baby lowers to the floor. Do this on a firm floor, never on a bed or a sofa, with no furniture edges close by.

Crawl to something you want
  1. Put the baby on hands and knees and set a favorite toy a body length away.
  2. Press a flat palm against one foot so there is something to push off.
  3. Let them get all the way there and keep the toy.

Why it helps

A crawl needs a reason. A toy one body length away is close enough to be worth it and far enough to require real travel, and the hand at the foot gives the push-off that a smooth floor takes away.

Watch for

Once the baby covers ground, go around the room at their eye level and clear cords, cables, and anything on a low shelf that comes loose when pulled.

From 7 months · 2

From lying on the side to sitting
  1. Lay the baby on one side on the floor.
  2. Put one hand on the top hip and the other on the top shoulder.
  3. Help them push up through the lower arm, first onto the elbow, then onto the hand, until they sit.
  4. Next time, start from the other side.

Why it helps

Many babies first sit up on their own this way: from the side, pushing up through one arm. Knowing the route lets them get into sitting without help, which is worth more than being put there.

Watch for

Guide at the hip and the shoulder, and never pull the baby up by the hands or wrists. Clear a soft space around them first, because a new sitter often tips straight over to the other side.

Sit with both hands busy
  1. Sit the baby on the floor with a cushion behind them.
  2. Hand them a toy big enough to need both hands, like a soft ball or a large stacking cup.
  3. Let them hold it, turn it, and bang it while they stay sitting.

Why it helps

With both hands on a toy, the baby cannot prop on a hand to stay up, so the balance has to come from the trunk. This is the step from sitting with a hand on the floor to sitting with both hands free.

Watch for

Stay within arm's reach, and keep a cushion behind them until sitting is steady. A slow tip to one side is normal and part of the practice, but a fast fall backward is the one to catch.

From 8 months · 1

Crawl through a tunnel
  1. Open both ends of a large cardboard box, or drape a blanket over two chairs.
  2. Kneel at the far end, where the baby can see your face.
  3. Call them through to you, and cheer when they come out.

Why it helps

Crawling into a small space asks the baby to keep the head low, feel where the sides are, and keep going toward you when the light changes. It also turns crawling practice into a game they will ask for again.

Watch for

Pull out every staple and strip of tape first, and keep both ends open so you can see the baby's face the whole time. Never close a baby inside a box, keep plastic bags and packing material away, and check that the chairs cannot tip when the blanket is pulled.

From 9 months · 4

Pull up at the couch
  1. Sit the baby facing the sofa and put a toy up on the cushion.
  2. Let them grab the edge and pull themselves up to standing.
  3. Show them how to bend the knees and sit back down, which is the harder half.

Why it helps

Getting up is mostly arms. Getting down is legs and nerve, and a baby who can only get up ends up stuck and shouting at the furniture until someone comes.

Watch for

Anchor or remove anything that tips when it takes a baby's weight — floor lamps, bookcases, open drawers, the television. This is the month a room has to be checked for what comes down.

Cruise along the couch
  1. Stand the baby holding the sofa and put a toy an arm's length along it.
  2. Let them shuffle sideways to reach it, both hands on the cushion.
  3. Move the toy a little farther each time they arrive.

Why it helps

Sideways steps with the hands taking some weight are how a baby learns to shift onto one leg. Standing on one leg for a moment is what a first unaided step actually is.

Watch for

Bare feet, or grip socks, on a floor you have checked for rugs that slide. Skip an infant walker — pediatric guidance is against them, and they get a baby to a hazard faster than you can cross the room.

Push a loaded box
  1. Put a few books in a sturdy cardboard box so it slides without running away.
  2. Stand the baby behind it with both hands on the near edge.
  3. Walk beside them across the room and back.

Why it helps

The weight is what makes this work. A box that slides too easily gets away and the baby falls forward, while a loaded one pushes back and becomes a walking frame that costs nothing.

Watch for

Do this on a level floor, away from stairs and doorways. Add or remove books until the box moves steadily instead of sliding or sticking.

Climb the cushion hill
  1. Pile two or three sofa cushions into a low slope on the floor.
  2. Put something worth having at the top.
  3. Kneel on the far side and let them climb up and slide down.

Why it helps

An uneven, soft slope makes every step a slightly different problem, so the ankles, knees, and hips have to solve each one. That is balance being built, and a flat floor cannot ask for it.

Watch for

Keep the pile low, put it on a soft floor, and stay within arm's reach on the descending side. Break the pile up when the game ends, so it is not there to climb unwatched.

From 12 months · 4

Carry it to someone
  1. Hand the toddler something light but bulky, like a cushion or an empty box.
  2. Ask them to take it to another person in the room.
  3. Have that person send it back.

Why it helps

Walking while holding something raises the difficulty a long way: the arms are busy, so they cannot help with balance, and a bulky object blocks the view of the floor.

Watch for

Light and soft only, nothing breakable, nothing with a hard corner at face height. Keep the route clear, since they cannot see their own feet.

Walk on uneven ground
  1. Find grass, sand, or a gentle slope in a park.
  2. Hold one hand at first and let go when they are steady.
  3. Let them stop as often as they want to look at things.

Why it helps

Indoor floors are flat and honest, and they ask the ankles almost nothing. Grass and sand change under each step, which is the work that turns new walking into steady walking.

Watch for

Check the ground before you set them down, keep well back from water and roads, and expect more falls here than at home — that is the surface doing its job, on a surface that is kinder to land on.

Stairs on all fours
  1. Open the stair gate and sit on the step behind the toddler.
  2. Let them go up on hands and knees, two or three steps only.
  3. Turn them around and teach coming down feet first, on their tummy.

Why it helps

A toddler will meet stairs whether or not you practice, so the question is only whether they meet them with you sitting behind them. Coming down feet first is the half that prevents a head-first fall.

Watch for

Stay one step below them the entire time, within arm's reach. Close the gate the moment you finish — practicing stairs does not make a staircase safe to leave open.

Squat down and stand back up
  1. Scatter a handful of blocks around the toddler's feet.
  2. Hold the bucket at their chest height so they must stand up to post each one.
  3. Keep going until the floor is clear.

Why it helps

Squatting and rising without a hand on the furniture is a real leg exercise, and holding the bucket high is what forces the full movement instead of a lean and a grab.

Watch for

Bare feet on a non-slip floor, and stop when the squats turn into sitting down. Tired legs are how a good game becomes a hard landing.

From 18 months · 3

Kick a ball
  1. Put a light ball still on the floor, right in front of one foot.
  2. Let them walk into it first — that is the beginning of a kick.
  3. Later, hold a hand while they swing one leg at it.

Why it helps

A kick means standing on one leg and swinging the other, which is the hardest balance a toddler attempts. Walking into a still ball is the version that works months before the real kick arrives.

Watch for

A light ball, away from furniture and glass, and never on a street or a driveway. A ball that rolls out of view is how a toddler follows it somewhere you did not intend.

Walk like animals
  1. Show them a bear walk, on hands and feet with the bottom up.
  2. Then a duck waddle in a low squat, and a rabbit hop with both feet.
  3. Let them pick the next animal.

Why it helps

Each animal loads the body differently — a bear walk puts weight through the shoulders, a duck waddle holds a deep squat, a rabbit hop needs both feet to leave the ground together. Together they cover more ground than any single exercise.

Watch for

Clear floor, no hard corners, and let a hop wait until both feet leave the ground easily. Copy along and stop when they stop, rather than counting repetitions.

Dance and stop
  1. Put music on and dance with them.
  2. Stop the music and freeze completely still.
  3. Start it again and carry on.

Why it helps

Stopping on cue is harder than moving. Holding still on purpose asks the brain to override a body already in motion, and that is the same control that will one day stop at a curb.

Watch for

Keep the volume moderate and the space clear of furniture edges. Follow their lead — if the freeze turns into falling over on purpose, that is a fine game too.

Ages say when an idea usually starts working, not when your baby should manage it. Babies reach these months in their own order.